Page 20 - Fire Your Personal Trainer and Kick Your Own Damn Ass
P. 20

Fire Your Personal Trainer                                 17
                And Kick Your Own Damn Ass





          between two people one of whom clearly knew what he was doing, and
          one of whom clearly did not. The outcome the second time was much
          worse than the first.

          When I saw that kid the second time, should I have turned my bike
          around and rode the other way? Could I have avoided a beating when
          the boy grabbed the front of my bicycle by trying to reason with him?
          We’ll never know. He obviously had something in mind when he stopped

          me, and his accusation that he heard things I had said about him was
          complete nonsense. He was setting me up. At least that’s what I think.

          What’s interesting to me is that he had a total victory the first time but
          that wasn’t enough for him. It wasn’t enough to humiliate me once. He
          saw me and he wanted to do it again for kicks even though his buddies
          weren’t around.  For everyone who writes pablum about bullying for
          young people, maybe you really ought to rethink the disservice you’re

          doing by not telling the truth.

          In two brief encounters I had come away with two chipped front teeth,
          and bulging bruises on my face that stuck out like eggs and made me look
          a little like actor Charles Laughton in the movie, “THE HUNCHBACK OF
          NOTRE DAME.” I also had bruises on my neck from his fingers choking
          me. My only consolation was that I had faced up to my fears and shown
          some guts. I was a lousy fighter, but I had stood up for myself and I felt

          good about that.

          Because it was summer vacation no one from school saw what I looked
          like. At first, I was embarrassed to go out in public because people stared
          and asked me what happened, and I didn’t want to talk about my losing
          effort. One night I was in Modell’s and a guy in his twenties came over
          and told me he had been in a fight like mine and the other guy broke
          his hand punching him. There was something about the way he spoke
   15   16   17   18   19   20   21   22   23   24   25